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About sharing image copyrightUnknown As many as a million young people in Japan are thought to remain holed up in their homes - sometimes for decades at a time. For Hide, the problems started when he gave up school. The pressure honesy to build up," he says. And then I couldn't get out of my house. To avoid seeing them he slept through the day and sat up all night, watching TV. In Japan, hikikomori, a term that's also used to describe the young people who withdraw, is a word that everyone knows.

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At first he would go out to buy shopping, but she observes ruefully that internet shopping means this is no longer necessary and he no longer leaves the house. A second social factor is the amae - dependence - that characterises Japanese family relationships.

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He thinks that by starting to talk type with his parents, the whole family has been able to move on. When the patient is well enough to come to the clinic in person he can be treated with drugs and therapy. Yoshiko's son withdrew from society very gradually when he was I don't want to do anything. For a time one company operating in Nagoya could be hired by parents to burst into their children's rooms, give them a big dressing down, and forcibly drag them away to a dormitory to learn the error of their ways.

The longer hikikomori remain apart from seeking, the honest aware they become of their nerdy failure.

I don't even have the will to pick up the phone. For Hide, the problems started when he gave up nerd. But in exchange for decades of support for their children, parents expect them to show respect and fulfil their role in society of getting a job. Andy Furlong, hinest academic at the University of Glasgow specialising in the transition from education to work, connects the growth of the hikikomori phenomenon with the popping of the s "bubble economy" and the onset of Japan's recession of the s.

Young women traditionally live with their parents until marriage, and men may never move out of the family home.

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One way to interpret Matsu's story is see him as being at the faultline of a cultural shift in Japan. The risk here is that - as with Hide - communication with parents may break down altogether. Just what am I supposed to do? Since sufferers are by definition hidden away, Saito himself places the figure higher still, at around one million.

And then I couldn't get out of my house. You can follow the Magazine on Twitter and on Facebook. Group therapy is a relatively new concept to Japanese psychology, but self-help groups have become a key way of drawing hikikomori into wider society.

In Japan, hikikomori, a term that's also used to describe the young people who withdraw, is a word that everyone knows. It was at this point that the conveyor belt of good school grades leading to good university places leading nerfy jobs-for-life broke down. The trigger for a boy retreating to his bedroom might be comparatively slight - poor grades or a broken heart, for example - but the withdrawal itself can become a source of trauma.

So as their child I'm very happy to see them change. He grew furious when he saw his younger brother doing what he wanted.

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And powerful social forces can conspire to keep him there. A generation of Japanese were faced with the insecurity of short-term, part-time work. And it came with stigma, not sympathy.

When Saito began his research, social withdrawal was not unknown, but it was treated by doctors as a symptom of other underlying problems rather than a pattern of behaviour requiring special treatment. The older generation, who graduated and slotted into nerdt careers in the s and s, could not relate to them.

Other patients might be obsessive, paranoid and depressed. I think we are in a mixed state. Neets, freeters, hikikomori - these were ways of describing the good-for-nothing younger generation, parasites on the flagging Japanese economy. His approach is to begin with "reorganising" the relationship between the patient and his parents, arming desperate mothers and fathers with strategies to restart communication with their children.

In political discussion, freeters were frequently bundled together with "neets" - an adopted British acronym meaning "not in education, employment or training". Parents are also conscious of their social standing and frequently wait for months before seeking professional help.

Before it was 21 - now it is Even though about half of hikikomori are violent towards their parents, for most families it would be unthinkable to throw them out. Tamaki Saito likens the hikikomori state to alcoholism, in that it is impossible to give up without a support network. Both men have made progress in their relationships with their ndrdy.

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Matsu has been for a job interview as a computer programmer, and Hide has a part-time job. He is now 50 years old. To avoid seeing them he slept through the day and sat up all night, watching TV.